As human beings, we’re encouraged to take care of every moment, to gather and celebrate life, even in times of great sadness. And it’s good advice. I hope we all do. But Memorial Day isn’t a celebration. Memorial Day is a day to honor those who’ve given their lives in service of something extraordinarily powerful. A force that stands nations under God, but somewhere far above ourselves.
Many of us frame Memorial Day as the start of Summer. Schools let out, students graduate. We open our pools, grill, and play. And that’s ok – as long as we remember. And it’s ok to need a reminder. For those of us who’ve never known life-altering sacrifice, or been touched by devastating loss. We need reminders. However foreign the territory, it’s time to stand at attention and pay homage to those who gave, and continue to give, their all.
I sit here, on this Federal Holiday, my feet up, relishing the hot dogs and beautiful weather. I sit here, in a land I’ve never had to defend, in a home where my security has never been threatened. I have a husband, a father, a brother, I’ve never had to part with. I don’t have children who’ll decide to enlist or be required to fight. I’m blessed. I know this. But I need to be reminded.
And it’s not just the fallen we have to remember. It’s the families with gaping holes in their hearts, missing or mourning their loved ones, adapting their own lives around those who’ve been called to serve. It’s the many men and women who come home forever changed by the things they’ve done and seen. It’s the brave souls who survive their wars, but surrender to suicide. I can’t even imagine, but I still need reminded.
So gather, celebrate, enjoy the freedoms we’ve been given. And if you pray, pray for the grieving to find some peace today. Spend time with your loved ones. Let them know you remembered. – L. 🇺🇲💙🇺🇸
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